Have you ever felt that you’re not being appreciated by the person you care? You felt that you’ve done a lot just to try to make the person happy, but at the end of the day, you felt as if the person never really noticed your effort and worst, the person didn’t even make any effort to maintain any contact with you when you’re not together, and you’re always the one to text the person first?
Yes, people are willing to sacrifice for the person they care…. but for how long?
Well it doesn’t have to be a person of the opposite sex, I’m sure you have done such for a close friend. And somehow, it makes you think whether the friendship is even important to the person as it is to you.
As you complain, take a moment to think. Think of the people around you. Has there ever been anyone, a friend, who’s actually always been there for you, who actually asks you how you’re doing once in a while, who asks for a meet up with you even for a short dinner once in a while, who at times text you even for a random stuff?
Well, in your attempt to make the person you care about happy, even though you rarely feel appreciated, you may fail to realise that you actually have other friends, those who actually care. Just as how you felt that you’re not being appreciated by someone, there might be someone who feels the same way towards you… so why protect a one sided friendship, and let these people go? THESE are the people you need to treasure. Appreciate them before they too, will go.
I’ve seen of such person. It’s saddening.
Apart from that, my buddy just created a twitter account:
Best profile pic of his I’ve seen so far. 4 more months before he’s back.
People nowadays, pfft.